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This week it’s time for some brutal honesty. First I’d like you to do this exercise for yourself, then gather the courage to ask friends, family and peers to rate you for an outsider’s perspective. If you can, have it be confidential so they will be completely honest.

You need a paper and pen. I’m going to put a slide at the end of this video so you can pause it and see this if the explanation isn’t clear, and here’s what I want you to do. Draw 6 lines of about equal length, one under the other, about an inch apart. Make a hash mark in the middle of each line to mark the center.

To the left of the 1st line write the word unkind. To the right, kind. I’ll give you the next 5 sets of words, always starting at the left.

Impatient, patient

Closed, open

Taking, giving

Talker, listener

Judgmental, open

Feel free to add other sets of words you feel are important or that you’d like to explore more.

Where would you like to be in relation to where you are on these scales. Look at each item and write 2-3 things you need to work on to get there.

I’m Roberta Fernandez, a Board Certified Hypnotist and Certified Trainer at The FARE Hypnosis Center, helping you take back control, by unlocking the power of your mind to reach your goals of any kind.

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I often talk about how your thoughts become things. Repeating the same thought over and over provides the brain the opportunity to make it a habit. This is great if your thoughts are in alignment with what you want. If not, well, you are creating ways of thinking that keep you stuck.

This week I’d like you to think of three frequent thoughts that you have. Because we are working on areas of improvement, focus on things that you say to yourself that are not in alignment with what you want. 

What do you wish they would be? Reframe them and make a conscious effort to repeat them and let yourself imagine them in as great detail as possible. Really feel these positive thoughts that you desire!

I’m Roberta Fernandez, a Board Certified Hypnotist and Certified Trainer at The FARE Hypnosis Center, helping you take back control, by unlocking the power of your mind to reach your goals of any kind.

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  For some, this is not a merry time of the year. Those experiencing holiday stress, loneliness and loss find their way to our Center.
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I listened to a talk by Matthew McConaughey gave (you can find it on the FARE Hypnosis Facebook page) on the difference between happiness and joy. I talk with my clients about this subject as often as I can.
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We procrastinate when we put off what we can do today until tomorrow. Most of the time the root cause of procrastination is fear. Not the fear that keeps us safe, the fear that is a misguided emotion that appears real.
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We start our wires-crossed series with emotions.  Emotions are meant to be expressed. They tell you that there is something you need or desire. Emotions are formed in the subconscious mind and are communicated through the body to the conscious mind. For example, if you are sad, it might produce tears. If you are scared, the hair on the back of your neck might rise. If you are angry your face might flush.
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