Internal Dialogues

Probably the most important conversations you have are the ones you have with yourself. They can be the most productive or the most damaging.
We create what’s called arbitrary relational frames in our mind. Let me give you an example: Look around you and pick an object near you. Now choose one more thing in your space. Got them? Now, of the two objects, which is better? Go ahead – make a case for why one is better than the other.
Of the the two objects, which is the parent and why? (Which came first?)
I chose a shoe and a laser printer. And I’m sure, like me, you were able to completely logic the answers to each of those questions. I know I was quite satisfied with my answers.
Here’s the point – You create everything from your perception and then make judgments about them -even if it doesn’t make sense or isn’t important. 
What thoughts, beliefs and ideas do you hold that have been created arbitrarily, and though you’ve forced them to make sense in some way, no longer serve you? Sometimes it’s hard to let go of these things – and that’s where we can help.
I’m Roberta Fernandez, a Board Certified Hypnotist and Certified Trainer at The FARE Hypnosis Center, helping you take back control, by unlocking the power of your mind to reach your goals of any kind.


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