Most people are condition-dependent. That is, you allow the conditions around you to control how you feel. You feel a need to soothe the critical eyes of how others see you.
But here’s the thing. You will never be able to control how others see you, nor can you control any of the conditions around you. Thinking that you can. leads to the fear that you are not good enough. And as you continue to fail in your efforts to of this, and you will, you simply reinforce this misperceived belief that you aren’t good enough.
The bottom line: You don’t need anyone to be different or to think differently about you in order to feel good about yourself. You are the perceiver of your universe, which means that you are the interpreter of it. Decide today to focus on feeling good. Because how you feel shapes your perception of everything. Once you achieve mastery of how you feel, everything else will fall into place.
I’m Roberta Fernandez, a Board Certified Hypnotist and Certified Hypnosis Instructor at FARE Hypnosis, helping you take back control, by unlocking the power of your mind to reach your goals of any kind.