Walking My Talk with Confidence and Courage

I’m often asked what I do as a hypnotist. It’s a more complicated question than it seems to be. Last weekend I crossed a big item off my bucket list. It’s something I’ve never done before: I sang in front of people. It was suggested that I choose an easier song, but I love Shallow […]

Motivation versus Inspiration

Clients often tell me they want more motivation. I tell them there’s a big difference between motivation and inspiration.  Motivation often implies that if you don’t do something, there will be consequences – usually negative ones. It’s something you feel like you HAVE to do. Inspiration comes from within. It is what brings you satisfaction, even […]

AHARA

AHARA results from the cumulative knowledge gained from being a serial entrepreneur spanning multiple disciplines. It is a unique way to approach problem-solving, goals, Self-development, and life. This program is forward-thinking and positively focused on a new way of thinking and viewing everything in your world. Before becoming a hypnotist, I was a business consultant […]

Self-Esteem: Knowing Your Value

Your self-esteem must come from knowing your value.  In your professional life, you must be clear on the value of your talents and what you bring to the table. If you aren’t sure, no one else will be either, and you’ll never garner the respect you deserve. In your personal relationships, it is up to […]

Fear – F.E.A.R.

Fear is on my mind today. It is an emotion that has an important purpose – to tell you that you aren’t feeling safe. I want to talk about is the acronym of fear – False Evidence Appearing Real. It comes in many forms. Fear of success. Fear of failure. Fear of not being good […]

You Get What You Expect

https://youtu.be/Sh6kQmOGr40 FARE is an acronym for the 4 laws of the mind: Focus, Associate, Repeat and Expect. Today I want to talk about expectations, specifically those you have about others. People will rise or lower to your expectations. When you go into a situation with the expectation that someone will behave in a way that […]

Take inspired Action: Plug in the Vacuum

A few weeks ago I talked about goal setting and the difference between taking action and taking inspired action.  I suggested taking time to place your thoughts and energy around something that makes you feel good before taking action. In other words, to get inspired about your goals. I heard this great metaphor that I […]

How Do You Take Action toward Your Goals?

https://youtu.be/lllwKJm6GVw I recently listened to a speaker explaining his method for increasing sales to business owners.  It was full of goal setting, analyzing the number of calls to close ratios, and setting daily targets to get the required percentage by the end of the week. I was exhausted when all his calculations were worked backward […]

Conditions

https://youtu.be/crRCnDwqO5s Most people are condition-dependent. That is, you allow the conditions around you to control how you feel. You feel a need to soothe the critical eyes of how others see you.  But here’s the thing. You will never be able to control how others see you, nor can you control any of the conditions […]

Be Selfish!

https://youtu.be/KPe2bh9jikg I want you to be selfish. That’s right. And I don’t mean just a little “ish”. I mean full out selfish! Let’s break this word down. Self means “a person’s particular nature or personality; the qualities that make a person individual or unique”. Ish – means “to some extent”. Put the two definitions together […]