AHARA

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AHARA results from the cumulative knowledge gained from being a serial entrepreneur spanning multiple disciplines. It is a unique way to approach problem-solving, goals, Self-development, and life. This program is forward-thinking and positively focused on a new way of thinking and viewing everything in your world. Before becoming a hypnotist, I was a business consultant […]

You are a Disco Ball

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The image of a disco ball came into my mind while working with a client recently. Perhaps you’ve danced under one, mesmerized by the sparkles on the floor, caught up in the patterns it created as it swirls around and around. You are like that disco ball, a thousand pieces of tiny mirrors that create […]

Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving signals the time of the year when for the next six weeks retailers remind us to eat, give gifts, and be thankful.  A part of me is grateful for the reminder. It’s easy to get caught up in the challenges life brings and forget to practice gratitude. A larger part of me asks “Why […]

You Get What You Expect

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https://youtu.be/Sh6kQmOGr40 FARE is an acronym for the 4 laws of the mind: Focus, Associate, Repeat and Expect. Today I want to talk about expectations, specifically those you have about others. People will rise or lower to your expectations. When you go into a situation with the expectation that someone will behave in a way that […]

How We See Others

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I’ve been spending some time reflecting on how we see others. What it boils down to is that you decide how you are going to see them. You decide if they are nice, mean, smart, or stupid. And once you assign that label, you create them exactly like that. Your perception of everything shapes how […]

Be Selfish!

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https://youtu.be/KPe2bh9jikg I want you to be selfish. That’s right. And I don’t mean just a little “ish”. I mean full out selfish! Let’s break this word down. Self means “a person’s particular nature or personality; the qualities that make a person individual or unique”. Ish – means “to some extent”. Put the two definitions together […]

Beaver Bay, MN

Today’s Friday Photo comes from Beaver Bay, MN. This quote is perfectly matched to the even bigger picture you cannot see in this closeup. Millions of small rocks make up this spectacular beach on Lake Superior. And not one of them is wasted. What kind act can you perform today?

Your Emotional Map

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https://youtu.be/8S61W8vPYLw In my NLP classes, I talk about how each of us has a different map of what reality looks like.  In Brene Brown’s Book, The Atlas of the Heart, she uses the map as a metaphor for emotions. Like a map… “…Human emotions and experiences are layers of biology, biography, behavior, and backstory. 1. […]

Atlas of the Heart

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https://youtu.be/RIsSDQpu2g4 Amazon just delivered Brene Brown’s Atlas of the Heart. As expected, in just the few pages I’ve read so far, it will not disappoint. Here are some out-takes of her powerful expressions of what I’ve been teaching for years: “…Trying to outrun and outsmart vulnerability and pain is choosing a life defined by suffering […]

Emotional Intelligence

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https://youtu.be/3v8CVKMwess I’ve been working with a business leader who is struggling to retain personnel. According to ta Gallup poll the primary reason people choose to leave their job is that they have a poor relationship with their boss. This was definitely an issue for him, so we had a long talk about emotional intelligence. The […]