Control vs Boundaries

https://youtu.be/x3_s8j51V0A It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. There’s a difference between Control and Boundaries. You are controlling when you set limits on someone else. When you set boundaries, you are doing it for yourself, not someone else. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability […]
Who are You?

https://youtu.be/w_9g4rMVqYU It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week, and it comes in the form of a PSA. Wanting to be someone else is a perfect waste of the person you are. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.
Emotional Intelligence and Conflict

https://youtu.be/U_cW_bGfn_g Hi, Everybody. I’m going to continue my little series here on Emotional Intelligence. And I know maybe some of you personally are sitting back thinking, well, does this have to do with me? It has everything to do with everyone. The last almost 20 years of my life have been focused on working with […]
What Do You See?

It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. And I don’t know where this quote comes from, but I absolutely love it. It goes, “All you see in your world is your idea of it. So don’t believe everything you think.” I’m Roberta Fernandez. Your Ability Activator. Have a great weekend, Everybody! https://youtu.be/EdFuQ1s5j9Q
What is True Happiness?

https://youtu.be/OUrRV5FRh-Y Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. This quote comes from Brandon Sanderson’s book the Oathbringer. The trick to happiness wasn’t in freezing every momentary pleasure and clinging to each one, but in ensuring one’s life would produce many future moments to anticipate. Something to ponder this weekend. Have a […]
Aging and You

https://youtu.be/yPHEMtPr4mU Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. It comes from David Bowie. “Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been.” I’d like to point out that this doesn’t start to happen in older age, it starts from the moment you are born. Are […]
At a Dead End?

https://youtu.be/vnznQgqrv2c Hi Everyone, it’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. The gift of dead ends is that there’s nowhere else to go except somewhere else. So ponder that this weekend. Have a great weekend, Everybody. I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.
Did You Miss it?

https://youtu.be/tzj82AGahBI Hi Everybody, It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. We’ve become so attached to the road that we’re on, to the itinerary that we’ve mapped out, that when a new road appears, we may not even see it, so I want to ask you what roads have you missed? Think about […]
Shine a Light

Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. I saw this on the internet and just love it: When a flashlight grows dim or quits working, you son’t throw it away, you change the batteries. When a person messes up and finds themselves in a dark place, so you cast them aside? […]
Which Door?

https://youtu.be/gr8r4iXVPmo Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week, and here it is: Better to admit that you walk through the wrong door than to spend your whole life in the wrong room. Think about that over this weekend. I’m Roberta Fernandez, your Ability Activator. Have a great weekend, Everybody.