Cry!

It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. This one comes from a little girl that I saw on Instagram. Her name is Mihira. She says, “The clouds also rain when they are heavy. If you feel heavy, you can cry. Nothing will happen.” As someone who specializes in emotional intelligence, I say, hooray […]
Empowerment

It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. I just had this amazing AHARA class that I taught, and I wanted to use this quote because we discussed it at length tonight. This quote is from Ava DuVernay (writer/director). “Make space for other voices. The best ideas are often locked into the heads, minds, […]
Apologizing

It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. “Apologizing doesn’t always mean you’re wrong and the other person is right. It means you value your relationship more than your ego.” Ponder that over the weekend. I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator!
Becoming

https://youtu.be/FzBruw1bhC8 It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. Many of you by now know that I have unexpectedly become a fantasy book fan, particular Brandon Sanderson, and this is from his almost latest Rhythm of War in a four or five-part series. It says, “No one has ever accomplished anything by being […]
Focus on Solutions

https://youtu.be/sC9cz4J6Lfo It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week, and I’m just thinking about how much we love to solve problems, because it feels good when we find solutions, doesn’t it? But here’s the problem about how our mind works. When we’re in the habit of continually looking for the problem and focusing on […]
Unexpected Consequences?

It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. I don’t know who said this, but this quote clearly illustrates the importance of being emotionally intelligent in your personal and professional life if you don’t want unexpected consequences. “Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion.” Something to think about over the weekend. […]
Your Destination?

It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week, and today’s Thursday comes from The Oathbringer by Brandon Sanderson. In the book it says, “A journey will have pain and failure. It’s not only a step forward that we must accept, it is the stumbles, the trials, the knowledge that we will fail, that we […]
Control vs Boundaries

https://youtu.be/x3_s8j51V0A It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. There’s a difference between Control and Boundaries. You are controlling when you set limits on someone else. When you set boundaries, you are doing it for yourself, not someone else. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability […]
Life Begins When…

https://youtu.be/2FCLexSTwQg It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week Time flies, doesn’t it? Some say life begins at 40, others at 50…All nonsense! Life begins when we decide to stop pleasing the audience. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.
Who are You?

https://youtu.be/w_9g4rMVqYU It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week, and it comes in the form of a PSA. Wanting to be someone else is a perfect waste of the person you are. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.