Who are You?

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https://youtu.be/w_9g4rMVqYU It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week, and it comes in the form of a PSA. Wanting to be someone else is a perfect waste of the person you are. Ponder that this weekend, and have a good one, Everybody! I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.

Emotional Intelligence and Conflict

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https://youtu.be/U_cW_bGfn_g Hi, Everybody. I’m going to continue my little series here on Emotional Intelligence. And I know maybe some of you personally are sitting back thinking, well, does this have to do with me?  It has everything to do with everyone.  The last almost 20 years of my life have been focused on working with […]

What Do You See?

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It’s time for your Thursday thought of the week. And I don’t know where this quote comes from, but I absolutely love it.  It goes, “All you see in your world is your idea of it. So don’t believe everything you think.”  I’m Roberta Fernandez.  Your Ability Activator. Have a great weekend, Everybody! https://youtu.be/EdFuQ1s5j9Q

Emotional Intelligence, Teams, and Relationships

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Today, we’re going to talk about the benefits of emotional intelligence in helping to improve your teams. And I don’t mean just at work, I also mean that team, that home, family, or friends.   We live today in a sea of perspectives, a lot of us are divided, but the fact of the matter […]

What is True Happiness?

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https://youtu.be/OUrRV5FRh-Y Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. This quote comes from Brandon Sanderson’s book the Oathbringer. The trick to happiness wasn’t in freezing every momentary pleasure and clinging to each one, but in ensuring one’s life would produce many future moments to anticipate.  Something to ponder this weekend.  Have a […]

Aging and You

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https://youtu.be/yPHEMtPr4mU Hi Everybody! It’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week. It comes from David Bowie. “Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been.” I’d like to point out that this doesn’t start to happen in older age, it starts from the moment you are born. Are […]

Either/Or Thinking

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Roberta discusses the limitations of Either/Or thinking with Rosie Zikinskas on the No Woman Left Behind podcast.

The Aspects of Emotional Intelligence

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Today we’re going to talk about emotional intelligence.  Emotional intelligence is simply your ability to recognize, understand, and manage, and influence your own emotions. When you can do this, this improves your ability to do the same with other people.   Emotional intelligence encompasses several different… areas. The first of which is self-awareness, recognizing your […]

At a Dead End?

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https://youtu.be/vnznQgqrv2c Hi Everyone, it’s time for your Thursday Thought of the week.  The gift of dead ends is that there’s nowhere else to go except somewhere else. So ponder that this weekend.  Have a great weekend, Everybody. I’m Roberta Fernandez, Your Ability Activator.

Why is Change so Challenging?

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https://youtu.be/5rkijSMFat0 Join Roberta as she talks with Dr. William Attaway on the Catalytic Leadership podcast about why change is so challenging.