We see a lot of people with issues around relationships – both current and past. There’s many many things that can be problems in relationships – the big three being sex, money and communication – bu today I want to talk about needs. Specifically what do you need in a relationship.
Here’s my one piece – and only – piece of advice. If you are looking for someone to fill a particular need then you aren’t ready for a relationship. What you are ready for is some work on yourself.
Most people look to another to fill the voids they have inside of themselves or to find happiness. While another person can complement and bring energy or excitement into your life, your internal voids can only be filled by you. And of course, you first must identify what it is that is missing or what needs to be shorn up. No one else is responsible for your happiness or your life – and hopefully you never feel that way, because then you also believe that person has the power to take it away from you.
When someone comes into your life who is a potential partner, and you can welcome them in, but not NEED them, then you are ready and the relationship has a much better opportunity to be satisfying for both of you.
At FARE, we are really really good at helping you discover your unmet needs and desires. Give us a call and let us help you discover them for yourself.
I’m Roberta Fernandez, a Board Certified hypnotist and Certified Trainer at FARE Hypnosis, helping you take back control, by unlocking the power of your mind to reach your goals of any kind.